Sunday, July 1, 2018

Centennial Tribute to . . .

Dad--- 
Truly taught by example; had a wry sense of humor; and yes, made some mistakes.

TWINS
Dad and his twin sister were the fourth & fifth living children of their parents. 
Of the two, he claimed to be born first.
a second article appeared two days later correcting the parents to W.H. Barnett; not W.C.

Family
Many, many family reunions, get togethers 
and simple visits were to abound. 
This one about 1921.


Honor Student
It was during the Depression; and the little Pennsylvania Dutch farmer next door kept an eye on Dad's family and their needs. At some point Dad had moved onto their farm and
when 'Jimmie' was appointed superintendent of the county home he told 'Peter' (as he called Dad) that he was to come and live in the superintendent's residence with him and Mrs. Barr.
It was so that Dad could attend High School 
and be sure to graduate.


Military
U.S. Army - WWII
Medical Corps
His stories were of stitching small wounds
and caring for soldiers in New Guinea
and overall he portrayed a positive experience.
(except for the bedside kangeroo that woke him one morning.
Oh, and the moldy boots.)


Married
September 24, 1947
Never a harsh word to the love of his life.


Provider
A day off or vacation mostly meant
lots of hard work at home.

Father
Not enough space to express
his acts of love and forgiveness.


Choices of medical treatment were fewer then,
but they sought them and didn't give up 
and happily seven years later, 
a Son.



Cars
Oh my, he did love his cars;
(and I suspect the wheeling and dealing that went along with them)


Work
Two words - Work Ethic!

Over time, two of his brother-in-laws 
also worked at the feed mills, Rae and Chuck.
Then for economic reasons, in his mid 50s, 
Dad went to work in a copper tubing mill 
until he was disabled following an accident at home.



Unconditional Love
"In sickness and in health
for better or for worse
'til death us do part"

Fifty-five Years
and He prayed for God's mercy on her soul
at her deathbed.
  

Perseverance 
Dad was injured in the early 1980s from a fall off the roof of a small barn at home.
It resulted in a complicated break in his hip.
At first he got along with a cane but
complications of aging resulted in him being bed ridden with Mum as his caregiver until she developed cancer. At that time he voluntarily
entered a  nursing home.
Once again he never placed guilt on his children
and every visit found a smile on his face.
(toothless as it was ;)


Passed On
Earthly life ends for all of us
and I thank Almighty God
that Dad's ending moments were peaceful.
   
 Happy 100th Birthday, Dad


So much more . . .
But that will wait for his written family history.
As a result of his love of family and community history, my retirement passion is genealogy and recording our stories.